I realized earlier this evening that I had not posted my progress in a while. I actually hadn't posted anything in a while... I guess it's time for an update!
Surgery is really what put me into a funk. I wasn't thrilled that I would have an extended recovery, and I was really on eggshells until I went to get my post-op ultrasound and had a chance to look at the progress. This surgery was supposed to free me, and I was not happy that my recovery was going to take longer than expected (since it has been a THREE year process!).
Well, it will be at least three more months before I get some real progress. I have some major swelling left over, but it's supposed to resolve soon. I am walking daily, and this helps to get everything moving.
I am happy to announce that I am on my way to completing another mission: to learn website design!
I have been walking, talking, and such with a friend, Tom. He works on computer programming for a living, so he has given me a lesson and some pointers on how to layout a website beyond the templates that blogger gives. I am not saying I want to be an expert in the area- it was just something I always wondered about. I want to work on creating a site to link my writings, this blog, and some other projects. I will call this mission a near-success, with some actual application meeting my goal.
The walking has also helped get me moving to get back into training. I am really not certain what I need to do for my goal to run a 10K. I know I just need to keep moving and wait to see what happens. I have little control over anything other than helping myself, and I will do my best. At the next doctor's appt, I will reevaluate my goal.
I have my stack of books primed and ready for summer break. I am disappointed that I didn't get to read more in the past few months. Life has kept me extra busy, and I know for the next three weeks I will be treading water. It is nice to know there is a stack of books that will be waiting for me once I get a break. :-)
I am going to work on arranging the fish catch, and I need to schedule my hot air balloon ride. I am ready to get out and do those things, now that I am somewhat mobile.
These past two weeks have been incredibly calming. I have been able to focus on what I need to do, I have been more productive, and I can see that my energy has increased. It is funny how waves of peace and calm can move through your life. I really think you don't realize how wonderful it is until you have gone through a storm. I like the structure and order and calm of my environment, because it was not like that a year ago. I like having my life back, and I am excited to look at the future.
My daughter's third birthday was Friday, and I thought back over these past three years. It's been a rough ride, and I wonder at times how I survived. She has been an incredible presence in my life, and I feel like she was sent to save me. The other morning I woke up and wrote something for her birthday. At first I didn't feel like sharing, but it seems like a pretty vital message in the whole scheme of things.
These Three Years
I waited for my life to change again.
Had enough with change,
and was frankly sick of it all.
Little did I know,
change had just begun.
It would consume me.
My savior-my lifeline
would soon be born.
She was the hope I had dreamed of,
and knew she would rescue me.
She is the spirit of everything
I could ever hope to be.
Everyone says she is my shadow,
As time has moved on,
hair has grown longer,
young faces are older.
Lessons were learned,
both mother and daughter.
My saving grace has walked
beside me through these years.
Through illness, injury, and desertion-
her trusting eyes,
her comforting stroke of my hair,
as I hold her against me at night.
A creature creeps into my room
in early morning.
"Don't worry Mommy, I'll save you."
"You already have."