I have to wonder what people want anymore...
People express that they want more excitement in life, and they want something new and novel to laugh and cry and scream at. They want a wide range of emotions and want to create drama around them.
In the same breath, they take drugs galore to numb themselves because the emotions get to be too much. Anxiety, depression, and the whole sensory experience itself is an overload, and our brains need a reboot.
I really can't address what I think is reasonable for the rest of the world, nor do I really have the energy to do so. I know in my own experience, medication makes me numb to pretty much everything. I know I have a very intense personality, and that can be a great asset. It can also be a hindrance in some ways. People either love or hate me, my interests wander all over the place, and it tends to scare many. I am very interested in many things, and my mind races hundreds of miles an hour. I like to keep busy and I talk with great intensity about all of my projects and experiences. If you make it through a conversation with me lately, you will probably think to yourself that my latest hobby is a home laboratory of sorts...
I spoke with a good friend last night about relationships, and about how there are epic highs and miserable lows in any great love story worth telling. We spoke for a long time about past wrongs, and it was a great conversation over all. This morning, he thanked me for speaking with him. I told him I didn't mind at all, and that there was nothing wrong with intensity of emotion. I believe to be human and take anything from this experience on earth, we have to be able to reach the broad spectrum of emotions. I can't say I am exactly proud, but I can say I reach the very ends of the spectrum on a regular basis (we haven't determined if this is a good or bad thing).
This made me wonder: what types of people tend to feel these intense emotions? I am sure that writers and other creative thinkers tend to feel emotions in more intense form. I am curious what other professions tend to experience these emotions, or if it just tends to be personality types, education levels, intelligence levels, etc? Or am I just overthinking it all?
I will admit that I am an incredibly smart individual, but I sit on the ground and watch the clouds and/or stars on a regular basis. I am moved to tears while driving when thinking of a phrase, song lyric, or piece of art. I often hear a voice narrating in my head as I move about my day, and it gives a vocal commentary of the story of my life. I know these things make me quirky, but they also make me incredibly cool. I enjoy being passionate about teaching and writing and researching. I love learning and exploring new things. I love photography and capturing snapshots of history of the world around me. This intensity is what makes me tick, and I love it.
I can say, without a doubt, that I felt the intensity grow tremendously in these last few months. It has been a great adventure to try new things, make plans and set goals, and look out into the future. I have experienced an incredible fear when looking at the world alone again, an incredible sense of contentment as I realized that I could be at peace with myself and who I have become, a strong sense of pride of all that I have accomplished in the face of incredible struggle, and and intense joy while trying new experiences to see what makes me tick, what I can learn, what I DON'T succeed at, and what makes me happy.